Apple’s Parental Controls: The Overview

With iOS 13, Apple released a new set of parental controls, called Screen Time. It offers parents much more robust tools for managing their children’s device usage, including setting time limits for specific apps and scheduling Down TimeThis upgraded functionality is the first major overhaul since 2008, and while a massive improvement, further refinements are still needed (we will continue to advocate for change).

Until Apple rises to the occasion, parents should know that every iPhone and iPad is still sold with settings defaulted to allow explicit content. See Our Guides to learn how to protect our children online.  

The Main Features

Guided Access

At the most basic level, Apple offers Guided Access which works well for young children. It enables a parent to lock any iPad or iPhone to just one app and set time limits. It’s a great option if you occasionally share your phone or iPad with your child, or if siblings share a device.

It’s super-easy to set up and ensures that your child can only view what you permit. It can help you to start teaching your kids good digital habits as it reinforces that screen time has limits. 

Click here for Instructions to Enable Guided Access

Screen Time

Apple’s latest functionality allows parents to manage their kids’ digital access on iOS 12 devices. Parents can:

  • Determine what functionality and apps to allow (e.g. Safari, FaceTime)
  • Set specific time limits for specific apps
  • Review children’s web browsing history
  • Limit explicit content and location sharing
  • Manage settings and monitor activity from their own phone
  • Turn iPads and iPhones completely off (except for phone calls)

Parents should know that Screen Time only works on devices that have upgraded to iOS 12, so it’s not available on many older devices. It also does not work for Mac computers, so does not offer parents a complete solution. 

While Screen Time controls present parents with some new and better options, it is fairly easy for a determined child to circumvent. See Our Complete Guide to Apple’s Screen Time for further details.  

Family Sharing

In order to take full advantage of the benefits of the Screen Time functionality, including managing Screen Time from your phone, parents must set up Family Sharing. Each child will need his or her own Apple ID, and you can only create anApple ID for children under 13 through Family Sharing.  

Beyond Screen Time, the other main benefits of Family Sharing include:

  • Paying just once for content and sharing it across the family
  • Tracking your family members’ locations (at least their devices)
  • Approving your child’s app downloads remotely with the Ask to Buy feature
  • Access to Apple Music’s Family Plan

See Our Complete Guide to Family Sharing  

Setting up an Apple ID allows your child to:

  • Download and make purchases from the App and iTunes Store which are stored separately from other family accounts
  • Make and receive Facetime calls, send and receive messages in iMessage and send and receive emails.
  • Find your phone when lost by signing into your iCloud account

In the process of creating an Apple ID, an iCloud email will be generated and you will select a password. These log-in credentials are needed to sign into your child’s iCloud account.

iCloud is essentially storage space for all data.

  • Photos, videos, notes, contacts, calendar, downloads etc. are all backed up to iCloud and can be accessed via your iCloud account  
  • If syncing is enabled, iCloud keeps your data updated across devices, so that changes made on one device appear on all others

An Apple ID, iCloud account and iTunes account are essentially synonymous.

Other Parental Control Options for Older Apple iOS Devices

For devices ineligible for iOS 12, parents still have the option to use Apple’s Restrictions to:

  • Determine what functionality and apps to allow (e.g. Safari, Facetime)
  • Limit explicit content and location sharing

Parents still need to create an Apple ID for children under 13, and the same parameters for Family Sharing as described above apply. The main drawbacks are that parents cannot turn devices off, set time limits, or differentiate between screen time for entertainment versus for fun. 

See Our Complete Guide to Apple’s Parental Controls (iOS 11)

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